Friday, November 19, 2010
My Heart Breaks For You
Today after learning that a fellow infertile blogger's second round of IVf had failed my heart broke. I wanted to share something with all of you who read my blog and have gone through infertility. Whether I know you or not I am so deeply sorry you are going through this. Every time I hear of someone going through or who has gone through infertility my heart responds. Before I can even find the words to say how sorry I am or how awful this is a piece of my heart breaks. There is nothing I can say to make it easier. I know that. There are no magic words that can make any of this easier and I am so saddened by that truth. I do however promise you that there are others who understand. Who get how devastating this is. I wish I could fix everything because you deserve to be parents. You deserve to be called Mom or Dad. The only thing I can say is you are not alone. All of us who have gone through infertility no matter where we are in this world or in this process we understand that ache. We understand the tears and the agony and crying so hard until your body feels empty. When I say my prayers at night you are all in them. Every single one of you. Those I know and love and those I have never met. I pray for your peace and happiness. I pray you end up with the miracles you so deserve. I pray for all your hurt to one day lift and your wounds to heal. I pray often.
Much love to each and every one of you.